Wedding Brouhaha: We wonder who Toolz is referring to?

As we all know, OAP Toolz is preparing for her big wedding and she is so excited about it, but some peeps would not let her rest, lol.  The soon-to-be Mrs Tolu Oniru-Demuren posted thus below:

Me when the next person I didn't ask tries to give me marriage advice! Make sure you do this, make sure you do that!! 😠😠 Did I ask you though? Are you a marriage counsellor though? Other than a PhD in Amebo, what other qualifications do you have? Thank you for your unsolicited advice, awon agents of confusion!! Comon and gerrourahere mehn....all the way ourrahere shiii!😡 #ThanksButNoThanks #MyGodHasGotThis

The question now is, who is Toolz refrring to?